Help for someone who has died |
If we love and sincerely desire to help someone who has
died, there is much we can do for them. Every thought or spiritual
practice we offer can influence the person's consciousness in a positive way.
Those who have suffered violent or sudden death
have a particularly urgent need for help and we should bring
every ounce of our will and compassion into our meditation
or prayers to purify the person of any possible suffering
at the time of his death and help him in his journey
towards enlightenment.
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How to help after death
Seven ways to help those who have died
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When to practice
Times when our spiritual practice will be most effective
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Practice of Essential Phowa
The best and most effective way to help someone who has died
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Requesting prayers for the dead
Request prayers and practices for a deceased friend or loved one
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Help for the bereaved |
Having a child disappear or die; surviving the horrors of war;
hearing about the violent death of a friend; losing many people we love
in a short period of time--if you are in the midst of any such catastrophe,
you may wonder if God has completely abandoned you. Faced with utter desolation
and great pain, you may feel bereft of love or hope. But never lose heart, there are things
which can help us get through such a "dark night of the soul."
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Heart practice to heal suffering
Transforming suffering when we feel our heart is breaking
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Resolving unfinished business
How to communicate all the things we wish we had said
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The normal process of mourning
Description of the cycle of intense emotions during the grieving process
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Supporting someone who is grieving
Advice on supporting friends and loved ones in their grief
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Finding meaning in loss
Lessons we can learn from loss and bereavement
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| Sources of support online |
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From Sogyal Rinpoche |
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| Recommended books |
An excellent guide to grief and its complications,
showing how we can heal even years after a tragic loss.
Contains not only advice on coping with a death, but
also for resolving difficult feelings associated with
major life change.
More books...
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